This latest edition of…my blog… is an effort to provide you with the wondrous teachings of the great Matt Kahn and his beautiful way to step out of victimhood permanently. Disclaimer: This is challenging, and again, in no way have I perfected it. Those close to me can attest. I am however, trying very hard because I know that if everyone did this at least once every day the world would be a very different place. As in world peace, if one dares to dream.

The way I see it is that every single person on this planet (and all the ones that aren’t), no matter who you are, or what you’ve done or not done, is a beautiful ball of love and light energy in truth. Even all the ‘really bad’ people. As one encounters difficult and painful life experiences and is unable to process them fully and healthfully, it’s as if mud starts to pack around this beautiful ball of light. Sometimes the mud becomes so thick and crusty and all-encompassing that the light can no longer shine in or out. Think Ebenezer Scrooge (cuz Christmas is coming).

When we are walking around in big dirty mud suits which block our love and light this can make life really challenging and painful. Matt Kahn’s teachings in ‘The End of Victimhood’ (YouTube link at the bottom) show us the best way to break through the dirt and let the love and light shine again, permanently and unconditionally.

Matt teaches that when people are hurling negativity outwards, all they’re doing is giving us an instant replay of the negativity, abuse, and mistreatment that they have endured in their lives. They’re showing us the pain and suffering that they feel and they’re confirming for themselves the belief that they are unworthy of love and kindness. Which means that we no longer have to take anything personally ever again because nothing is! Whoo hoo! That one’s still working it’s way through my dirt layers.

According to Matt, the best thing to do in a situation where someone is throwing big waves of negativity at you is to throw big waves of love back. Unconditionally. Pay them a compliment. Say anything you can think of that would make this person begin to entertain the idea that they may just be worthy of the love they so desire. Whaaaaa? I know. But just take a minute to imagine how liberating it would be to face someone who’s informing you in very specific detail about how you’re worth less than a turd and say, ‘You look amazing today. You’re simply glowing. Thank you for telling me how you feel about me. I hope you have a beautiful day.’ and go on with your life completely unscathed. Man. This is my new life goal.

Sometimes this is excruciatingly difficult, especially at first and especially if the nature of the negativity gets right into our soft spots. Picturing the ‘negator’ as a three year old really helps. Everyone can find compassion for a three year old, and in truth, that’s probably close to the age that this cycle began. When we do this, the result is that we break their cycle of abuse and help raise their vibrational frequency (feel happier and more love) while also raising ours. These people are appealing to the angel within us, and when we can access and share the love of that angelic being its incredibly healing for everyone involved.

Matt says that when someone tries to engage with our ego, it doesn’t know what to do. The ego wants to get in, spray some crap with its super powered crap sprayer, and get out. It completely disintegrates when it hears anything that doesn’t align with its negativity. Over time, and with enough love, it will eventually shut the hell up. This is also my new life goal. Whatever pain may arise in us in the face of such negativity can be seen a profound gift in that it allows us to see where we can love ourselves more. Matt suggests, very wisely, that there isn’t a person on earth that has treated us with more unkindness and judgment than ourselves. This love-spreading exercise helps to break us of our own cycles of self-abuse as well.

Everyone on earth deserves more love, not less, and this is a pretty effective way to put our money where our mouths are so to speak.

I would highly recommend watching the entire video. The transmission resonates into the energetic and cellular bodies to help embrace this teaching even further.